Sunday, November 10, 2013

Character Qualities of a Christian- Self-Control

          Interestingly enough, the word “self-control” was not used in the Bible until the New Testament. It is used only nine times throughout the Bible, and it simply means the ability to control your own behavior. I’m going to write this article a bit different than I do with most of mine, and I’m going to base it off of three separate statements. But before I do that though, I want to quickly define what self-control is. In its most basic form, self-control is the ability to set limitations on your life and do things in moderation; that’s where we get the term “self” combined with “control”*.
            
           Self-control is an essential component in the healthy walk of a Christian. I know that if I read something like this, I would be tempted to just say, “Yep, it is,” and leave it at that, but as Christians, we are called to a greater response. If you were raised in church, you probably learned the fruit of the spirit at a young age, maybe you even know it in song version*, but not all of us take that list seriously. I very strongly believe that it is one of the most important list of character qualities in the Bible. Self-control is one of the fruits of the spirit, and is mentioned in Galatians 5:23. If this character quality made the top nine, I think that we can assume that it is very essential component to a healthy walk. Boundaries and moderation are very important in life, but once we get our own house (and even before that), we are the ones setting our boundaries.
            
           Self-control can be achieved by all Christians. God generally sets realistic goals. Just turn real quick (this is still sort of on-topic) to Luke 18:27 where Jesus says, “The things which are impossible with men are possible with God.” I’m definitely not saying that we can achieve self-control in our own strength. A popular phrase is “God will never give you more than you can handle” but that should be, “God will never give you more than He can handle”. Self-control can only be achieved through the power of the Holy Spirit. Christians can only have the ability of self-control when they surrender everything to God and let Him work in their lives.  
            
           Self-control has been commanded by God. A Sunday school teacher that I had several years ago would say something but follow it up with the statement, “But don’t take my word for it; open your Bibles...” So, open your Bible to 1 Corinthians 9:25. This verse seems a bit confusing at first, so I just want to break it down into two sections. The race that we are running in is our life. Run so that we may obtain the prize, which means to give God all that we’ve got. Exercising self-control is key to running the race. 
           
           Picture this: four runners are getting ready to run a race. The guy in charge* gives no rules and no boundaries, not even a track, but he does give a goal and no instruction on how to get there. I’m guessing that not many of them would actually make it to the end, because there were no boundaries. This is what I believe Paul is saying: Self-control is essential to our “race” because it gives us a direction or purpose in life and boundaries that keep us going in the right direction.



* In case you didn’t catch that, it’s control over one’s self…
* AKA, fruit of the spirit 2.0

* Yeah, that shows how much I watch racing… Referee? Umpire? Coach? Bat boy? Guy with the starting gun?

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